QUOTE(junfan @ May 9 2010, 06:04 PM)

Today my stepson and my partner went to the local police station as the boy was beaten up in the street a few weeks ago. They were told that the youth who did the beating had just been interviewed and had admitted it and had received a "reprimand" but if he gets into trouble again he will get a warning!! if he gets into trouble after that he COULD be prosecuted.
We have always told our boys (3 of them) not to fight, which my stepson didn't (hence the beating) in case they get into trouble with the law!!!
They have now been told to hit back and not to worry about the consequences as there aren't any.
Self defense is a legal defense. So you might tell your stepson unless he starts it, he can fight back.
But you're right not to encourage violence in his life.